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Helping children develop the right attitude towards friends and relations

There is this saying that says your attitude determines your altitude in life i.e your response towards what life brings you, is it positiv...

Many relationships suffer due to misunderstandings between the two 
parties; the following points below can save your relationship today.<br />
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<li>Throw your pride away: Remove every atom of pride within you when 
you are dealing with your partner. When you talk to him/her, talk with 
utmost humility. If you make you partner feel that you are not on the 
same level with him/her, there will be loss in communication and once 
there is no communication there will be loss of interest in the 
relationship; you partner might eventually loose interest in you. 
Besides if you don't kill the pride within you it could cause 
inferiority-complex; you know it is not good to make your partner feel 
less than you are, So kill that pride and see your love life grow.</li>
<li>Stop the lies: Some people lie about their age, some people try to 
hide who they really are to test their partners. for example supposing 
you are a very rich person and you want your life partner to love you 
for who you really and not for your money; then you begin to pretend to 
be an average earner, you lie about your income, your job and even phone
 calls. If your partner should find out, He/She would think you see them
 as gold-diggers and can also make them feel inferior and humiliated. So
 for whatsoever reasons don't lie to your partner. Try as much as 
possible to be transparent.</li>
<li> Create time for each other: Whether it be online, or a date or 
visiting each others home, do not make it look like as you were forced 
to make out time for the date. Don't visit them in a manner of "you 
asked me to come, now I am here", make them feel special like they are 
the best thing that ever happened to you in your life. If you are 
chatting on social media, try as much as possible to reply as soon as 
possible in a consistent manner; it would make your partner know how 
much respect and regard you have for them. Take your time to go out to 
some cool places to have fun, it makes your love life awesome and 
unforgettable.</li>
<li>Buy gifts for each-other: A relationship is a give and take 
scenario. It is not a job opportunity. Some ladies only want to collect 
and are not willing to give anything in return. Some ladies won't come 
to see their lovers until he sends their transport expenses to their 
bank accounts; it is very bad. Have you heard of men that have been in 
relationships for years and their girlfriends has never given them 
anything even though he showers her with all forms of monetary and 
luxurious items. Some ladies collect school-fees from their parents and 
lie to their boyfriends that they lost the money or something, demanding
 that he should help them with all or some of the amount. In summary, 
your relationship is not a source of income. </li>
<li>Don't start what you cannot finish: Don't text her all day if you 
know you cannot continue doing it when you start dating. Don't call her 
for hours if you no you cannot continue footing the bills as soon as she
 says "yes". If you tell her "I love you" five times a day, do not 
reduce the dose because she might have being addicted to it; you know 
what it is when you are addicted to something and the supply is being 
cut-off, it's not good right??</li>
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Four ways to prevent mis-understadings in your relationship.

Many relationships suffer due to misunderstandings between the two parties; the following points below can save your relationship today. ...